James Joseph Ross

Born: Sat., Jan. 19, 1963
Died: Mon., May 4, 2020


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James Joseph Ross 57, passed away on May 4, 2020 with his family at his bedside & via FaceTime after a 35 day battle with COVID19. Jim was born on January 19, 1963 in Bristol, Ct, the son of the late Richard Ross Sr and Marcia (Coates) St.John. Jim was raised in Bristol before moving to Danbury CT for the last 30 yrs. Even though he lost the battle to this horrific virus, Jim gained everything and more when he entered through the gates of heaven. Jim is survived by his brothers Richard F Ross Jr. and his wife Jean of Terryville, John Ross and his wife Amanda of Newington His nieces Calynn (Ross) Renouf and her husband Justin. Kaci  Manderson of Bristol, Summer Steiner of Terryville, Nephews Jeffrey Spear of Pawtucket, Shawn Donahue of Port St Lucy, Fl. Benjamin Ross of Newington. Jim was predeceased by his sister Susan M Ross. Jim would introduce his closest friend as my Lawyer friend Jeffrey Hutcoe of Danbury, for the past 14 yrs whom he spend every Super Bowl with. Jim a very fun, loving, goofy, and charismatic guy. Jim had a wonderful sense of humor. His love for the New York Yankees was remarkable. Jim wore his heart on his sleeve and would be there for anyone in a heartbeat. He loved his family and friends whole heartily. Jim was an artist who loved to draw gifts for his loved ones with his artistic ability. He had a heart for the unfortunate and struggling people. Jim was celebrating 30 years sobriety this year, he was a devoted AA leader and helped hundreds through their sobriety. Jim was very proud of his sobriety and loved helping others and sharing his personal testimony as encouragement. The family would like to thank the nurses and doctors at Danbury Hospital ICU unit and the first step down from ICU Thank you for being on the front line. Jim will be deeply missed by his friends and family..He will forever reign in our hearts. In lieu of flowers send donations to any AA meeting,soup kitchen,food pantry, or homeless shelter in your area in memory of Jim Ross.

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Marie. &. Glenn
   Posted Fri May 08, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time , Hold on to all the great memories. ♥️
Sending our deepest Condolences. Love you ~~

Charlie, Carolyne & Anna Kapros
   Posted Fri May 08, 2020
Sending our deepest condolences to you all. We had only met Jim a few times over the years, but you could see the tremendous love he had for his family and his family for him. We could feel the love he had for his brothers. And he loved to talk with anyone that gave him even a few minutes. He was a great and gentle giant. Hold your memories close till you meet him again. May he rest eternal 🙏❤️

Jeff Hutcoe
   Posted Fri May 08, 2020
Jim was a true hero of mine. Having so much about which to legitimately complain, in 15 years I never heard him complain once. His life was defined by his courage in the face of fear. His heart was truly a heart of gold. I miss his friendship terribly and always will. His humility was so strong that he probably didn’t realize how many hearts he broke, or how terribly he broke them when he left. I believe Jim is in Paradise, and I am so happy about that, but that doesn’t stop the pain. “Yo Jimmy, my true brother, miss you dearly and hope to God we get to laugh again. Thank you for blessing my life, With love, Hutcoe.”

Ron Anthony Quinn
   Posted Fri May 08, 2020
This makes me so terribly sad. Jim was loved b so many and I will remember him dearly. I remember when I first came into AA, Jim was one of the first people I met. We made breakfast together often, and for years, on Sunday mornings. He spoke his mind and was proud to be sober. He was a good man with a good soul and heart. I always looked forward to seeing him and he put a smile on my face. May your soul and spirit Shine On, Jim. Peace.

Jessica Ferreira
   Posted Sun May 10, 2020
Jimmy will he missed by many! He was a great guy who would do anything for anyone! We will miss him tremendously!
Jessica from Nolan’s

Roger Davenport
   Posted Tue May 12, 2020
Brother Rick and Family, we are saddened by the loss of your brother James.
May peace be with James and you as well.

Brothers Patrick and Roger