Patricia (Urban) Cote

Born: Thu., Nov. 12, 1942
Died: Thu., Dec. 27, 2018


3:00 PM to 6:00 PM, Sun., Dec. 30, 2018
Location: Scott Funeral Home, Inc.

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 AM Mon., Dec. 31, 2018
Location: St. Casimir Church

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Patricia (Urban) Cote, 76, of Terryville, passed away Thursday, December 27, 2018, at home surrounded by family and friends, after a short battle with pancreatic cancer.

Patricia was born November 12, 1942 in Bristol, CT, daughter of the late Julius and Mary Urban.  She graduated from Terryville High School in 1960.  After high school, Patricia worked at Eagle Lock, followed by Chapman Machine for over 25 years.  Patricia retired in 1997 to spend more time with family.  She enjoyed family get togethers, bowling, reading, working in her garden and the many summer vacations taken with her family
In addition to her husband, Raymond of 54 years, she is survived by her daughter, Denise Martin and her husband Bryan of Farmington; her son, Michael Cote and his wife Jennifer of Terryville; her grandchildren, Joshua, Zachary, Michael Henry, Matthew and Mary-Gianna; her sisters Terry Urban and Susan Steiner of Terryville.  She is predeceased by her sister Ruth Urban, brothers John and Peter Urban, and her godson, Russell Valencis. She also leaves behind many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Patricia was a lifetime member of St. Casimir's Church, serving as president of the Women's Guild, a member of the Rosary Society and many other church committees.  She helped and organized many pierogi workshops.  She volunteered at the lock museum, greeting visitors with her wonderful personality.  She will be remembered for her love of God and family, along with her positive outlook on life.

The family wishes to thank her many caretakers:  Jessica and the many nurses from Hartford Healthcare Hospice, Dr. Cherneskie, Dr. Black, nurse Julie and their staff at the Bristol Hospital Cancer Center.

Funeral services will be held Monday 9:30AM from the Scott Funeral Home, 169 Main St., Terryville to St. Casimir Church, Terryville for a Mass of Christian Burial at 10AM.  Burial will be in St. Mary Cemetery, Terryville. Relatives and friends may visit at the funeral home Sunday from 3 to 6PM.  Patricia's favorite color was red so we ask that you wear a bright color in celebration of her life.

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Marybeth Petersen
   Posted Fri December 28, 2018

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John Kohanski
   Posted Fri December 28, 2018
I am shocked and saddened to hear of Pat's death. Please be assured that she will be in my prayers as will all of you, her beloved family. May she rest in peace. John Kohanski, Milford, CT

Jerry and Sandy Nadeau
   Posted Fri December 28, 2018
Dear Ray and Family,
We are grieving with all of you today. We will miss Pat and her joyful laugh, friendship, and words of wisdom so much! We take comfort in knowing that she is no longer in pain and is now in Heaven with God watching over all of us. Our deepest sympathy, love, and prayers are with you always.
Jerry (Jay) and Sandy Nadeau & Family

Johnson family
   Posted Sat December 29, 2018
Dear Cote family:

I wish to convey my sincerest condolences to your entire family. Losing a loved one in death is one of the hardest things that anyone will ever have to deal with. There is a great hope held out to us for the future because God promises to bring those we lost back to life by means of a resurrection to a paradise earth, where sickness and death will be no more. I hope this brief message will bring you a measure of comfort in this difficult time.

Elaine Goodfield
   Posted Sat December 29, 2018
Ray and family,
So sad to here of Patty's death. She was a wonderful girl. I enjoyed working with her at Chapman Machine. It was the best time.

Deborah Cappa-Kotulski
   Posted Sat December 29, 2018
Denise I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved mother. My thoughts are with you and those who knew and loved her. May your loving memories of your mother help ease your pain and heartbreak.

Laurie Singer
   Posted Sun December 30, 2018
Denise, I am so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Laurie Singer

Karen & Mike
   Posted Sun December 30, 2018
Ray, Denise, Michael and families,
We are so saddened to see the passing of Cioci Patty. She was such a positive person, always smiling, giving encouragement and love. She will be greatly missed, but we are happy that her journey to heaven is complete and she is in a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all - you are a great testament to what a wonderful wife, mother, sister and grandmother (Babci) she was. God Bless!

jean meehan
   Posted Sun December 30, 2018
My condolences to Patty's family. I graduated with Patty in 1960. We were friends in school. She was a fun and gracious person. I have many high school memories. She is not gone, she will be in our hearts forever. Rest in Peace Patty.

Eddie Pater
   Posted Mon December 31, 2018
Ray and family,
May my condolences bring you comfort and may my prayers ease the pain of this loss.May our Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this time of grief.

Michael and Dawn Ganem
   Posted Mon December 31, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lisa Pace
   Posted Wed January 02, 2019
Hi Denise,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. My deepest condolences to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Huzaifa Osman
   Posted Wed January 02, 2019
Hi Denise,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences for your family's loss.